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Why I Left TherapyDen: When a Values-Driven Directory Stops Living Its Values
Photo Credit: Pexels/koolshooters Why I Left TherapyDen | A Therapist’s Investigation Into Transparency and Ethics Kari Rusnak A licensed therapist uncovers troubling inconsistencies in TherapyDen’s ownership and values. What happens when a “values-driven” directory stops living by its own ethics? I joined TherapyDen because it looked like the kind of company I want to support; one that actually tries to live its values. I’d just left Psychology Today over their treatment o

Kari Rusnak
Oct 2911 min read


Welcome to my podcast!
My debut podcast "On Both Sides of the Couch" "Musings of a therapist who also struggles with chronic illness." Listen where you get your podcasts or here: https://bothsidesofthecouch.buzzsprout.com/ Got an idea for an episode? Want to be a guest? Let me know!

Kari Rusnak
Oct 291 min read


Why I Chose to Stop Writing (and Being Listed) on Psychology Today as a therapist; leaving Psychology Today
image of a writer and therapist looking defeated When I opened my private practice in 2014 I listed with Psychology Today simply because it’s the first thing that comes up when you search for therapy. When I started writing for online publications in 2020 I pitched to write for Psychology Today’s blog believing that a recognizable platform would help share my work more widely. If that’s how you first found me, I thank you for being here and giving me the chance to explain why

Kari Rusnak
Sep 236 min read


Why Viral Relationship Advice Is Ruining Relationships
Social media is drowning with relationship advice but those TikTok “therapists” may be making intimacy harder. Imagine you’re taking...

Kari Rusnak
Sep 234 min read


Stonewalling Isn’t Always Shameful: A Survival Strategy in Disguise
Stonewalling is when there is an emotional shutdown during conflict, it can look like the silent treatment or short responses and...

Kari Rusnak
Sep 233 min read


Does Your Heart Know Your Partner Better Than Your Head?
Learn how nervous system synchrony shapes connection, attraction, and long term love. Imagine sitting across from someone on your first...

Kari Rusnak
Sep 233 min read


3 Words That Can Stop A Fight In Its Tracks: According To A Couples Therapist
They’re easy to say, hard to fake, and they can instantly shift your relationship from conflict to connection. You’ve just got home...

Kari Rusnak
Sep 234 min read
Quiz: What Is Your Relationship Communication Style?
Our communication style is an important interpersonal factor that we often consider in the workplace. It’s equally important in all of...

Kari Rusnak
Apr 5, 20223 min read
The Importance of Vulnerability in Healthy Relationships
Being vulnerable isn’t the most comfortable feeling to have or space to be in. We are exposing ourselves and allowing space to possibly...

Kari Rusnak
Apr 5, 20222 min read
How a Hysterectomy Can Affect a Relationship
Any major life change can affect your relationship, as the stress can generate a great deal of tension. Having a hysterectomy is a major...

Kari Rusnak
Apr 5, 20223 min read
Help Your Partner Support You When You're Having Surgery
Having a major medical procedure can be a scary life-changing event. Events like this cause stress which can increase conflict in your...

Kari Rusnak
Apr 5, 20222 min read
Why Do People Self-Sabotage in Relationships?What it looks like, why we do it, and how to fix it.
Self-sabotaging can be a common reason relationships don’t work out. Sometimes one person in the relationship engages in this behavior,...

Kari Rusnak
Apr 5, 20222 min read
How Spending Time Outside Can Improve Your Mental Health
A lot of people can attest to the healing that being out in nature can provide. Japanese culture coined the term “forest bathing,” which...

Kari Rusnak
Oct 13, 20212 min read
Listening to Understand Instead of Respond
As a couples therapist, a problem I see with every client is communication. More specifically, listening skills. Often, we may hear our...

Kari Rusnak
Aug 10, 20212 min read
How Much Time Do We Need to Invest Into Our Relationship?
How much time do we need to spend investing in our relationship? Psychologists may have found a way to quantify this amount of time. In...

Kari Rusnak
Jul 14, 20212 min read
Improving Connection in Your Relationship: How to build rituals of connection.
If you feel like the connection in your relationship is dwindling and are wondering how to rebuild it, this post could help. Often, life...

Kari Rusnak
May 14, 20212 min read
Are you listening to respond or listening to understand?
In my work as a couples counselor, a lot of my time in sessions is spent improving listening skills. People often say they are great at...

Kari Rusnak
Apr 6, 20212 min read
How to Treat Grief and Pregnancy Loss: An interview with a certified EMDR therapist.
Jessie Cuadros is a Certified EMDR therapist who specializes in grief and pregnancy loss. Her practice in Orlando Florida accommodates...

Kari Rusnak
Mar 17, 20214 min read
Is It Narcissism or Alcoholism? How to determine the cause of your loved one's behavior.
Are you in a relationship with someone who puts themself and their drinking before others? It can be hard to hold a connection with...

Kari Rusnak
Mar 16, 20213 min read
How Can I Tell If My Relationship Is Toxic?
Searches about toxic relationships have been pretty popular this year. Staying at home more often and spending more time alone with our...

Kari Rusnak
Mar 15, 20213 min read
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