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Listening to Understand Instead of Respond: A Workbook for Couples

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Tired of relationship conflict that goes nowhere?

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If you're feeling misunderstood, unheard, or stuck in repetitive arguments, the problem might not be what you're saying—it's how you're listening. Most people engage in reactive communication, listening just enough to defend or respond, instead of listening to understand.

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In this relationship workbook for couples, you'll learn how to shift your communication style and reconnect with your partner through deeper, more meaningful conversations.

 

This book introduces the eight components of empathetic listening—a method of active listening designed to strengthen emotional connection, reduce relationship conflict, and foster healthy

communication.

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  • Clear explanations of each listening skill

  • Guided exercises and journal prompts to practice and reflect

  • Designed for individuals or couples (two copies recommended for partners)

 

Whether you're working through tough conversations or just want to improve your connection, this communication workbook will give you the tools to feel seen, heard, and understood.

 

Perfect for couples, therapists, and anyone who wants stronger relationships.
 

Start transforming the way you listen—and change the way you love.

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Freelance Writing

Kari has contributed to websites such as Psychology Today, The Gottman Blog, and Rewire.

 

Please check out the following examples:

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​The Gottman Blog-Kari Rusnak

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Psychology Today-Kari Rusnak

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Rewire-Kari Rusnak

Online Learning.

Kari is available to write on a variety of mental health and relationship topics.

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