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Gaslighting in relationships

Are you wondering if you may be experiencing gaslighting in your relationship? Check out my interview for AskMen to learn more about it!


https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice/gaslighting-in-relationships-9-signs-it-s-happening-and-how-to-make-it-stop.html


Gaslighting is a sign of two of the four horseman used in Gottman Method. It is a sign of defensiveness as the person cannot accept responsibility and contempt because of the way they try to make the other person out to be crazy. Remember to accept responsibility for your part and express your own feelings and needs!



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